Are you having the same frustrating argument over and over again?  Do you find yourself going round and round and never getting anywhere.  

Disagreements are essential to our growth and connection, we thrive when we expand our perspectives, learn new things, and deepen our relationships.  So why avoid them?  Because most of the time they are filled with misunderstandings, accusations, fear, and regret. 

This course will help you to:

• Stop pulling your hair out in arguments
• Eliminate shouting matches and storming out of the room
• Say what you actually “mean,” even when you’re upset
• Reach resolutions and stop having the SAME argument again and again
• Appreciate your role in the relationships you are building
• Stop feeling hopeless in your endeavor to be understood
• Finally learn how to argue to create partnership and common ground
• Discover what is possible when you act as a team

The six dynamics that we will cover:

• Presumptive questions
• Win/lose and Right/wrong model
• Blaming 
• Deliberate provoking 
• Controlling behaviors
• Exaggerating (often to comical proportions)

Here’s what you are going to get with this course:

• Lifetime access to a 30-minute video that will walk you through our definition of communication, the six dynamics of unworkable arguments, and the tools that will help you create connection in every argument. 
• A workbook filled with exercises that will keep you on track, long-term. Including an Argument Audit that will give you detailed questions to ask yourself after each and every one of your arguments.  This will help you stay connected to your intention to create mutuality and common ground in your arguments.
• Individuals get a 30-minute call with Jennifer or Kathryn to review any questions or insights.  Groups get a 60-minute call for up to ten people.  

We were never taught how to argue with our hearts.  How to argue to create connection and common understanding.  We all know how to argue with our intellect.  We know how to win, blame, dominate, and cause upset.  But what if we want to create more understanding, share perspectives and grow together through our disagreements?  How do we do that!? 

Honest, engaged, inspiring relationships take work.  And, arguments are a necessary ingredient.  Trying to build a great relationship without ever arguing, disagreeing, or disputing is like trying to paint a masterpiece without getting paint on your fingers.  

Great relationships aren’t about never having arguments, rather how you grow from them and how you expand your ability to understand each other.